What does it look like when a marriage drifts? Two kayakers paddling together, then gradually doing their own thing until they can no longer see each other. That image captures something painfully familiar for many of us. In this message, we explore what it means to grow together rather than apart, and why the stakes could not be higher. Marriage is not just a social arrangement. It reflects God Himself, modeled after the unity of the Trinity and the original design seen in Genesis. When we understand that the enemy actively targets marriage precisely because it carries that divine image, we begin to see why intentionality is not optional. The message draws on the story of Isaac and Rebekah to show us what love and prayer look like in action. Then it traces how even that strong union began to fracture when priorities shifted and communication broke down. We are reminded that life does not drift us together. Drift only moves us apart. Growing together requires a daily decision to keep God at the center and our spouse as the priority above all else.